How Much of Your partner can You Handle?
No man is too much for any woman, neither is any woman too much for any man but every woman cannot handle the same kind of man, likewise, every man cannot handle the same kind of woman.
So many ladies kick start relationship without having in mind what their relationship entails. No two persons are the same, and no two persons start from the same place in life, or are into same phase in life… same goes for relationship. Every relationship is unique, no two relationships are the same, they might encounter same relationship issues but there will be different strategy, plans and level of understanding in settling dispute, which is why comparing yours with that of your neighbor or friends is a big slap on your personality.
In this article, I grouped men into three categories which are: Career figure, public figure and business figure. A lady married to a public figure will definitely not have the same relationship experience as the one married to a career man, same goes with the lady in a relationship with a business man. These men are likely not to have same experiences, same level of finance, same upbringing and at such they will treat their women differently. So understanding you and the kind of man you are settling for, including his nature of work or business will save you the stress of the day.
Their spending capacity varies, so their level of attention and care will vary too. A man finds you but you choose based on what matters to you. Choosing a man is not the time to weigh strength or time to prove who or what you are not to your friends and families.
I have come to the realization that majority of ladies say yes to men they cannot handle, deep down inside of them, they are aware that they cannot cope with what is inside the man, they cannot cope with work schedule of their partner, including themselves but they still go ahead to accept just to enjoy wealth or because they are scared that they are up to marriageable age and not married.
Marriage is a life time commitment that entails you knowing what you want before signing up for it. In making your choice of man, it is crucial for you to have known what you really want for your life, understand your capacity in life, if you need to increase it to suit the kind of figure you want, then do it.
In weighing your capacity to being with any of your choice, be sure that he has the capacity to be with you so as to create balance in your home.
Do you know the nature of his work, Figure out the figure you can live with and go for it?
If a public figure’s private life is not well managed by him or family, it becomes a source of news as there is a thin line to understanding which is private or not private to a public figure.
You have to be sure you really understand the rivers you will swim through, the gossips, not to mention the abusive words from the public, libel or slander, the defamation you will face with him because of his or your status. The wealth, the affluence, the level of exposure, the travel, the accolades that comes with that.
Can you sincerely handle what comes with it? Are you willing to enjoy or endure his status?
Salary might not be steady, and stable. Daily feeding comes at the end of the month, work might be brought home, early works. Understand you have to cut your budget to suit your income.
what profession can you work with or handle. in every profession, there are challenges and there are loads of awards and accolades to enjoy or endure.
He is a business man, as a starter fund might be a serious burden to him, and as someone who is already in, competitors, days of no sales, is likely to set in and disrupt his happiness. you have to be aware that an importer’s goods might collapse into the big sea or hijacked at the wolf by custom officers, and for him to recover his loss, he might have to sell the goods at the cost price, the business trips you have to deal with in the course of your journey so as to build a thick skin towards them.
In Coasting home, bear it in mind that being in a relationship with any of these men is subject to whom you have chosen to submit your all to, whom you have decided to cuddle and fondle your breast and play with the sensitive parts of your body day and night, whom you have given the power to become your pretty distraction, and whom you have decided to work together with so that you both can keep your heads above the water.
We all have our girly list, this is the right time to review or throw away your girly list and face reality. Some of what you have written down do not match your personality, relationship is beyond physic…
The question is: how much of whom you want him to become… can you handle?